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What Does Fashion Mean To You?

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Fashion is about expressing your identity, showing someone who you are through your fashion choices and using your clothes to tell someone something about you. Or at least it is for me- I suppose for some people clothing is just about comfort or utility but for me it's about expressing myself. ​"Fashion is about expressing your identity ... using your clothes to tell someone something about you" Part of choosing ethical fashion over other fashion brands adds another element to what fashion means to me and what I choose to express to other people. For me fashion isn't just about picking pretty garments that show off my personality, it's also about linking me to where the clothes themselves have come from- they make me feel like I'm part of the bigger picture. I choose clothes based on where they have come from and who has made them. I like to know that what I'm wearing hasn't negatively impacted on someone else's life and b...

FASHION

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Fashion is something we deal with everyday. Even people who say they don’t care what they wear choose clothes every morning that say a lot about them and how they feel that day. One certain thing in the fashion world is change. We are constantly being bombarded with new fashion ideas from music, videos, books, and television. Movies also have a big impact on what people wear. Ray-Ban sold more sunglasses after the movie Men In Black. Sometimes a trend is world-wide. Back in the 1950s, teenagers everywhere dressed like Elvis Presley. Who dictates fashion? Musicians and other cultural icons have always influenced what we’re wearing, but so have political figures and royalty. Newspapers and magazines report on what Hillary Clinton wears. The recent death of Diana, the Princess of Wales, was a severe blow to the high fashion world, where her clothes were daily news. Even folks in the 1700s pored over fashion magazines to see the latest styles. Women and dressmaker...

What Good Parents Know that Bad Parents Don’t – the Paradox of Authority

There is always something that good parents know and bad parents don’t. Today we will speak about parental authority, the one, where children naturally respect their parents and are not afraid of them. This level of parental authority can be tested by the willingness of children to obey and not resist their parents. In a good parent-child relationship the problem of obedience or resistance of children is resolved on its own. What do good parents know about these problems? 1. Children don’t obey, they just work together with parents Good parents arrange their activity with children so that there is only one boss, one manager: the work, which must be done. Parents and children share one goal, the job at hand. They work together. They cooperate. Here is the paradox of authority: for many people it seems that children obey parents, where in fact they don’t obey them, and they don’t resist; they simply solve problems together with parents. 2. Parents become teachers, when t...

How do I live and grow stronger as a Christian?

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In order to keep strong in our Christian life, there are three essentials. Just as in our physical life we must breathe, eat, and exercise, so in the spiritual life we must observe these three essentials to success and happiness. The Christian life is a growth, and we must not expect too great results at first, but, if we follow these three essentials to Christian life and growth, we shall have happiness and joy in Christ's service here on earth. We Grow by Eating 1) First, we must eat. What is the food for spiritual life? “The words I have spoken to you are spirit and they are life.” (John 6:63) “When Your words came, I ate them: they were my joy and my heart’s delight.” (Jeremiah 15:16) Daily reading and studying of the Bible are necessary to spiritual growth and life. If we do not eat this food for the soul, we shall not grow, but shall finally starve spiritually. We Grow by Breathing 2) Second, we must breathe spiritually. Prayer is the breath of the soul....

10 Guide lines for Christian Living

Whether we are playing a game, driving a car, or baking a cake, there are certain rules that must be followed for our safety as well as our success. The Bible teaches that the Christian life is one of constant growth. When you were born again, you were born into God’s family. It is God’s purpose that you will grow into fill stature and become mature in Christ. It would be against the law of God and nature if you were to remain a baby and thus become a spiritual dwarf. In 2 Peter 3:18, the Bible says that we are to grow. It implies steady development, constant enlargement, increasing wisdom. For one to grow properly certain rules must be observed for good spiritual health. Read your Bible daily. Do not be content to skim through a chapter merely to satisfy your conscience. Hide the Word of God in your heart. It comforts, guides, corrects, encourages – all we need is there. Learn the secret of prayer. Prayer is communicating. Every prayer that you pray will be answere...

8 Steps to a Better Friendship with God (Tips on how to form good habits)

Schedule a devotional "appointment." Write a specific time and location on your calendar, or in your planner. You might want to choose a time that corresponds with another daily activity: after you get up in the morning, right after school, or immediately after dinner. Try to avoid putting devotions off until the end of the day. "If I wait until bedtime, I usually end up skipping it because I fall asleep," Angela says. Choose your tools. Some basics include: 1) A Bible. Biblegateway.com offers 16 versions for you to compare, from that classic King James Version to modern versions like The Message. Or, consider using a student or study Bible—many contain reading plans and practical ways to apply Scripture to everyday situations. 2) A devotional book. Some are specifically for students. Many have a "thought for the day" and questions to help you relate the verses you've read to your own life. 3) A journal. Use it to record your favori...

How to be a good Christian

1. Follow Jesus' example at all times . Follow Jesus' (the Son of God) greatest commandments: "Love the Lord your God with your whole heart, mind, body and soul" and "Love your neighbor as yourself." Even if someone treats you wrongly or whether you know them or not, we are called to love them. Jesus said "love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you." Jesus says in John 13:15, "I have given you an example, that as I have done, so should you do." He had compassion on people and healed them In I Corinthians 11:1, Paul says, "Imitate me as I imitate Christ." Ephesians 5:1 says, "Be imitators of God as dear children." Also many Believers are "empty, swept and garnished" (Matthew 12:44) by lukewarm Christian Doctrines. If you just go to church, you will be a weak Christian and trials will make havoc of your life. But if you go to church AND read the Word every night, you will become a stro...

Batas-batas pergaulan Berpacaran Kristen

         Apakah dalam masa berpacaran boleh ada keterlibatan seksuil? Pertanyaan diatas merupakan hal menjadi pertanyaan  banyak kaum muda masa kini. Ada tiga macam praktek yang “biasa” di kalangan kaum muda di kala mereka berpacaran,  yaitu berciuman, berpelukan dan meraba-raba. Praktek berciuman dianggap oleh kaum muda sebagai suatu tindakan “yang biasa”, yang “tidak perlu diganggu gugat lagi”, yang “tidak usah dijadikan bahan cerita lagi” dsb. Benarkah itu?           Bahkan banyak para pemuda yang mengartikan bahwa hubungan seks merupakan cara untuk menunjukkan rasa sayang kita kepada orang yang kita sayangi apalagi kalau dilakukan dan dialami sebagai wujud cinta kasih, sebagai sarana cinta. Padahal hubungan seks hanya dapat dilakukan oleh orang yang telah menikah sebagai pernyataan kasih, karena hubungan seks yang dilakukan bukan karena nafsu birahi belaka, tetapi karena do...

Sikap Yang Dibutuhkkan Dalam Pacaran

           Jadi, pacaran yang sehat sesuai Firman Tuhan itu seperti apa? Kalau kita mengerti bahwa kita adalah manusia yang berdosa sehinga mudah dikuasai oleh hawa nafsu, maka usahakan jangan berduaan di tempat sepi atau bahkan liburan berdua. Menghargai seks sebagai suatu anugerah yang harusnya dilakukan oleh pasangan yang sudah menikah. Menjadikan pasangan sebagai sahabat baik yang saling mendukung satu sama lain. Mencintai kepribadiannya dan bukan fisik ataupun materi yang dimiliki. Beberapa syarat yang harus dimiliki baik pria ataupun wanita seperti Adam dan Hawa (Kejadian 2:23-25). Pria: memiliki visi, mampu menjadi pemimpin atau menjadi kepala keluarga yang baik, dan bertanggung jawab. Wanita: memiliki kecantikan batin, pendukung, lemah lembut, tenang dan tidak mudah khawatir. Secara keseluruhan, pasangan yang baik adalah pasangan yang memiliki kasih sejati di dalam hidupnya.       ...

Tahapan Berpacaran Orang Kristen

Dalam berpacaran ada beberapa tahap yang harus dilalui, yaitu : Tahap Perkenalan : suatu tahapan di mana dua pribadi berusaha untuk saling mengenal satu sama lain. Bagi pria dan wanita yang sudah saling kenal sebelumnya, proses saling mengenal itu lebih cepat. Tahap Penjajakan : pria dan wanita saling berusaha untuk mengenali kebiasaan, dan sifat-sifat. Dari situ mereka dapat saling mengetahui apa mereka beruda saling tertarik dan mau saling berhubungan lebih dekat. Tahap Pendekatan : kedua individu berusaha untuk saling menerima satu sama lain, yang akhirnya menampakan ada rasa ingin lebih dekat lagi. Tahap Kesepakatan : hubungan kedua individu yang berlainan tersebut bukan lagi sekedar kenal, bukan lagi sekedar bersahabat, melainkan melangkah dalam kesepakatan untuk menikah. Akan tetapi dalam hubungan berpacaran, seringkali anak-anak remaja jatuh ke dalam dosa seks. Dengan kata lain melakukan seks di luar nika. Berbuat seoalh-olah sudah suami istri, atau mengangga...

Pacaran itu harus didasari Kasih Allah.

Apa tujuan kita pacaran? Apakah hanya mengisi kekosongan dalam hidup kita, keinginan dalam hidup kita, keinginan mata atau hal-hal yang menyangkut kepada kepuasan diri sendiri, dimana yang menjadi pusat perhatian hanya pada diri sendiri. Sehingga pada masa pacaran timbul istilah bahwa dunia ini hanya milik mereka berdua, dan tai gigipun akan rasa coklat…dan sebagainya,….dsb. Orang dunia mengatakan bahwa asmara itu adalah cinta dan itu sangat dibutuhkan bagi orang yang berada pada masa pacaran. Menurut kamus, asmara itu mempunyai dua pengertian yaitu: 1. Cinta Kasih 2. Cinta birahi, dimana seorang anak muda digoda dan tergila-gila pada pasangannya. Pada dasarnya asmara itu bukan cinta, karena asmara itu naksir/keinginan yang semua ini berpusat pada diri sendiri. Cinta kasih atau Kasih itu menurut Alkitab bisa kita baca dalam I Korintus 13:4-7. Cinta yang benar tidak dapat dijadikan topeng untuk satu maksud dan motivasi tertentu, cinta yang benar tidak mementingkan diri s...

Pengertian Pacaran Menurut Iman Kristen

Konsep kehidupan orang Kristen berbeda dengan orang-orang lain. Kehidupan orang Kristen adalah kehidupan dalam anugerah untuk mengambil bagian dalam rencana karya penyelamatan Allah dalam tuhan Yesus Kristus. Kehidupan yang bertujuan untuk mengerjakan pekerjaan baik yang sudah dipersiapkan Allah sebelum dunia diajadikan (Efesus 2:10). Oleh karena itu, bagi orang Kristen bahwa pergaulan, pacaran, dan pernikahan tidak lain dari proses kematangan hidup untuk semakin dipersiapkan, memikul dan mengerjakan pekerjaan baik yang sudah disiapkan Allah. Dalam Kekristenan pacaran disebutkan sebagai suatu masa perkenalan antara dua pribadi yang menjadi satu kesatuan tubuh dalam kasih dan iman yang sungguh kepada Allah (bnd Kej 2:24; 1 Kor 7:1-16). Pacaran bukanlah sekedar perkenalan saja, melainkan suatu hubungan yang mengikat dua pribadi menjadi satu keutuhan yang menuju kepada pernikahan kudus (bnd Mat 19:6a). https://putrasitompul.wordpress.com/2015/05/10/pacaran-menurut-iman-kri...

Remaja Kristen

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Seorang dikatakan  Remaja Kristen jika ia sudah percaya kepada Kristus dan kepercayaan  itu akan terlihat dari: 1.       Pemahaman diri sendiri        Pemahaman atau  mengerti diri sendiri atau disebut bercermin diri merupakan suatu keadaan, dimana seseorang mengetahui sikap-sikapnya, sifat-sifat, Kemampuan dan sebagainya. Pemahaman ini merupakan salah satu cara untuk menjadi diri sendiri yang seutuhnya. 2.       Penerimaan dirinya sendiri        Salah satu wujud identitas diri sesorang adalah kesanggupan individu dalam menerima dirinya sendiri. Penerimaan diri merupakan sikap positif terhadap dirinya sendiri, dapat menerima keadaan dirinya secara tenang, dengan segala kelebihan dan kekurangannya. 3.       Menilai diri berdasarkan penilaian Tuhan     ...

Need Prayer?

God listens to our prayers.  He answers our prayers – always.  Not always as we want, for God is not a vending machine.  He is the Sovereign LORD of the Universe and all that is contained therein.   Besides which God is God.  We are not.  But prayer matters, it is a privilege He allows us to partake in.  Prayer changes things.  Most of all, it changes us. We are told in scripture to make our requests known to God.  We are told to come before the throne of God boldly – because Jesus Christ has and is making intercession for us.  We are told that God is faithful, just, unchanging, all-powerful, and all-knowing, loving, compassionate, and good.  To name just a few of His attributes.  God knows what is best for us, so when we ask, we are to ask within His will.  His sovereignty that knows no time limitation, no restrictions in knowledge.  We are to ask in the name of Jesus. Answers to our prayers inc...

3 Things to Know about Hope: A Christian Reflection

Christian hope is both eschatological and immediate.   On the eschatological (end times) side of things, we believe God’s promise to bring a right end to this story we call life and time.  We may not know what tomorrow will bring, but we do know (hope) that when all the tomorrows end, God will remain and we will remain with Him. On the immediate side of things, hope puts today in proper light and establishes for us a proper way to interpret our day-by-day reality.  We walk daily with a certain discontentment owing to the fact that our sinful world and sinful selves are not as they should be, and are not as they will be.  We also walk daily with joy owing to the fact that our sinful world and sinful selves are finding salvation in God through Christ. Christian hope is the alternative to despair and indulgence.   Paul reminds readers in Romans 13 that because the dawn of salvation has broken and we no longer live in darkness (without hope), we shoul...

Reflection in the Christian Life

The spiritual disciplines are receiving a sort of resurgence within the Christian church today, with good reason. As Christianity has stagnated in the USA, a new emphasis has been placed on true discipleship within the Christian church. However, one of the spiritual disciplines which has not received a great deal of attention is that of reflection. Speaking from the Reformed perspective, I believe the reason for this inattention to be twofold. First, our American society tells us to never slow down and keeps us running frantically from one thing to the next. Everything in our lives is fast paced, and any time spent in reflection would obviously be seen as "wasted" time. Unfortunately, this attitude has crept into the church. As church members we are whisked along from one meeting to another, from one program to the next. Slowing down is simply not something we are good at. Second, I believe our Reformed theology (combined in my experience with a Dutch work ethic)...

The importance of Learning English

  http://www.inlinguamalta.com/blog/the-importance-of-learning-english/ The importance of learning English cannot be overstated in an increasingly interconnected and globalized world. For the millions of immigrants who travel the world from non-English-speaking countries every year, learning to communicate in English is important to enter and ultimately succeed in mainstream English speaking countries. Working knowledge of the English language can create many opportunities in international markets and regions. International Language English is the fourth most widely spoken native language in the world, and in terms of sheer number of speakers, it is the most spoken official language in the world. It is the primary language used in international affairs. The English language has official status even in nations where it is not the primary spoken language. English is indisputably the primary language of global trade and commerce. In many countries, most tourism ...

The Importance of Breakfast

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 https://www.naturalbalancefoods.co.uk/community/healthy-living/the-importance-of-breakfast/ Are you a fan of breakfast, or do you prefer to keep those precious morning minutes and get in some extra snoozing? Well, if you tend to skip breakfast, you may be missing out on what some people say is the most important meal of the day! If you choose to miss out your morning munch, you might not be feeling as good as you could be! Here are a few reasons why we think it’s worth making time for breakfast: Keeps you focused Eating breakfast helps us feel more focused for the coming day, whether we are at work or simply getting on with our daily routines. There’s nothing worse than being constantly aware that you are hungry and counting the minutes until lunchtime. Eating food in the morning not only fuels us until lunchtime but actually gives our brains the essential energy to function and focus better on tasks. Be happy! The foods we eat are intrinsically linked to o...

Secrets to success for English speakers (Don't Think, Just Speak)

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  Break it down then build it up To speak English well, you need to be able to do several things at the same time: know (and choose) suitable vocabulary, use the right grammar and sentence patterns, and produce the correct sounds, stress patterns, rhythm and intonation. Work on these individual elements separately then practise putting them together to make your speech more accurate and fluent. Learn to interact A conversation is an interaction with another person, and involves listening as well as talking. Check that the other person is following, by using conversation strategies like emphasizing key words, rephrasing, or using expressions like ‘You know what I mean?’ or ‘Don’t you agree?’ Give the other person a chance to speak and use their answers and to help you think about what to say next. Use your body Non-verbal communication is very important for effective speaking, even for native English speakers. Use gestures, body language and facial ex...

How To Be Succesfull in Speaking English

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To learn english we need dilligence and positive attitude. But what are the speific tips to be good in english? here are some tips to help you reach your goals in English. 1. Accept That English Is a Weird Language Sometimes you can find patterns in English grammar, but other times English doesn’t make sense at all. For example, why are “read” (reed) and “read” (red) the same word, but pronounced differently depending on whether you’re speaking in the past or present tense? Or why is “mice” the plural of “mouse”, but “houses” is the plural of “house”? Unfortunately, there are just as many exceptions as there are rules in English. It’s easy to get stuck on learning how to speak English properly, if you try to find a reason for everything.  Sometimes English is weird and unexplainable, so instead the best thing to do is just memorize the strange exceptions and move on. 2. Dive into the Deep End Studying English for an hour once a week isn’t usually enough to make ...

13 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Exactly Right For You

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http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a32525/signs-your-boyfriend-is-right-for-you/ 1. Being around him is always fun, even when the situation isn't. Like that one time you were stuck in line at the bank for, like, two hours, so you both made up a weird game involving deposit slips and finding people in the bank who may or may not be drug dealers. Being with him turns all things into great things.   2. He knows about your weirdo shit and he's into it. He knows you watch Lifetime movies over and over again while wearing a bathrobe and eating rice cakes, and he thinks it's cute for some reason. The reason: because he is awesome.   3. He's consistently great to you. If he makes you the most romantic dinner on Monday night, he doesn't suddenly become the Hulk the following night just because you forgot to pick up a bottle of wine to bring to his parents' place. Also, he should never become the Hulk.   4. You know (and like) all his friends. Yo...